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Showing posts with label New Year. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Year. Show all posts

Friday, January 18, 2013

The Great Purge

Happy Friday, I hope you have had a great week and are looking forward to something fun this weekend!  I have and am!!  It's a Disney Movie weekend here at the house!!  And that's always a good time!  I didn't want to talk about Disney Movies though, I wanted to share with you my latest project!! 

As I was out in the garage looking at all of the "stuff" that is out there, I was looking forward towards spring and the chance to clean out, again.  The title "The Great Purge" came to me and I'd thought I'd share my purging process with ya!!  I'm not sure why we feel the need to accumulate "stuff"? We always seem to keep something saying that "maybe one day I'll use it" but one day never comes, and those original findings end up the bottom layer of a large mass of unnecessary belongings.  I am putting an end to it, I am.  I am so over this need for stuff.  So, here's where it all started....well at least where the action started...the thoughts were well before this!
 
It actually started a few moths ago, after Hurricane Sandy hit and I received an invitation from a friend of mine, to bring all used clothing to her for delivery to affected areas!  I was happy to help and once I started gathering old clothes from the attic, the bug hit me and I knew that this wouldn't be the end of it!!
 

Fast forward to New Years Eve Day, as we were packing up all of the Christmas decorations, I decided that it would be a good idea to clean up the attic.  I've been on the thought process of only having what I need and needing what I have!  So this was the perfect time to begin the simplfying process....right??  I finished the attic, which wasn't too bad, because ever since moving to this home, it's something that I've been intentional about keeping up with.  I continued the process as we packed up Christmas, sorting out things that we no longer enjoyed or needed.


I moved out to our two car garage attic and hit the motherload!  It seems to be the resting place of many unwanted items.  The problem is that these items don't leave on their own and we've never taken the time to deal with them.  So I brought everything in the house and began sorting. I figured I'd set everything up and invite some friends over for a little indoor "yard" sale!  The finding and sorting process took a week and then another week was spent setting up the downstairs for the sale.
 
 
We held it last weekend and it went very well!  It was a great idea, we passed on quite a few items and it was fun catching up with new and old friends!! Now it's Friday, a week later and we've taken A.LOT of items back out to the attic.  It seems that we'll be having an old fashioned yard sale in the spring!  Hopefully we will find plenty more to get rid of!! 


It pained me to take it all back out there though, it feels incomplete to me, somehow like I failed.  Which, I didn't, but still.  I am looking forward to setting up my downstairs again, maybe in a fresh new way. I'm also looking forward to having the satisfaction of reaching the end point if this process, when we can begin enjoying our belongings because they no longer own us, rather we are in complete control of them.


I am slowly gaining ground on reclaiming my space!  Last night we ate dinner AT THE TABLE!!!  Which is the first time in almost three weeks!  It was nice!  I can walk through my kitchen and my counter space has regrown to its original size!  The attached garage has ample space to get to the items that we actually do need and I can see the light at the end of this tunnel!  Now just don't ask me to go out to the two car garage, which by the way, doesn't hold cars!!  Ha!


I will continue to purge, questioning each thing in my home that I put my hand on.  I will be asking myself these questions:  Do I use it, need it, love it?  Can it be used somewhere else, in a different way?  Is it a timeless piece, or will it be out when the new trend or style comes in?  I only want to have what I need, and need what I have.  I want to keep pieces that don't reflect my current mood or style, but pieces that are timeless, crafted well and mean something to me. 


I do believe that this process is a picture of what a mental clean out is too!  I want to remove the mental and emotional clutter that I carry around with me.  I want to create open spaces not only in my home, but in my heart.  I figure that the more "junk" I get rid of, the more space I have for God to move in!  I don't feel the need to have things lining the walls of my home or the walls of my mind.  I want a clean slate, a clean home, a clean heart, so that I and my family can function better.  So that we can enjoy the things that we have and use them, instead of feeling so overwhelmed by the sheer amount of things that we have and never using any of it! 


Maybe we will get to those projects once we can get to the supplies needed!  I may even craft more, now that I'll have the space and ability to get to what I need.  I'm excited...I know it may seem crazy to some of you.  We do have a large house and plenty of space to hold plenty of junk, but I don't believe that's how God would have us live.  Oh well, if you feel inspired by The Great Purge, please let me know!!!  I'd love to hear about your process, mental and physical!!!  Let's clean out friends and be free!!!!

God bless <3 Lorraine

Friday, January 4, 2013

My Word!!

Happy New Year friends!!  I really can't believe that the holidays are behind us and we are moving forward!!  There's a lot of talk out there about choosing a word, or rather having a word choose you that would define your year, your resolve, your approach for the days ahead.  As usual, I'm a few days behind the eight ball on this but it's alright!  I've been busy working my word out and it's only January 4th!!

My word or phrase for last year was "Just Breathe", although I don't remember picking it.   Things that we thought held security were revealed to be empty.  We learned that the only security we ever had was in Jesus Christ, something we knew, but didn't live out.   As a result of my hubbs losing his job, I had to learn to breathe again.

God has continued to provide for our needs and we praise Him daily for His faithfulness!! We don't know what tomorrow holds, we only know that He holds the future and that's enough for us!!

The journey continues.  As God continues to peel back the layers of our hearts and lives, I've settled on a new word for this upcoming year.  I'm tired of being buried under complications.  And so, I give you my word for 2013:

 
 
Why do we tend to complicate things, from our homes, to our minds, even our relationships with others and with Jesus.   Here are a few verses that came to mind as I pondered how "Simple" relates to the Word.

 
But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these."  Luke 18:6
 
How does the kingdom of God belong to children?  Well, because they are uncomplicated and simple.  Their faith is genuine and they trust with their whole hearts.  They often don't even question, they just take what you give them and run with it.  God wants us to do the same.  To trust Him so much that we don't question.  With our mouths we claim His promises and doubt them at the same time.  I want to fully trust Him, no matter what I see.  I know that He is good and that must apply to all that I see!
 
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us."  Hebrews 12:1
 
I don't know about you, but I tend to find myself stuck behind a lot of things that hinder me from being and doing what God wants of me.  Over the past I've been stuck behind a false view of myself, financial debt, physical clutter, mental clutter or even wrong views and ideas of who God is.  God has been decluttering my mind for a while now and I've started tackling the physical clutter of my home.  I tend to accumulate way more than I ever need or really want.  I believe that "things" will somehow satisfy me.
 
"Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me."  Philippians 3:12
 
I'm finally to the point of removing the boundaries and pushing forward.  I have been rummaging through my home to find things that I don't want, need, or use.  I have a room full of things that need to find a new address.  I want to walk through my home and feel the open spaces.  Knowing that when I make space available, God will fill it.  That's all that I want and need. 
 
I'm physically exhausted, we have a nice size home and a.lot.of.stuff!  But I am determined to not let anything hold me back from moving forward!!  I am really excited to have this focus for my year!!  I'm super excited to see what God does with the space that I make available to Him!!  I have no doubt that it will be utterly amazing!!
 
If you've never thought about having a word for your year, I want to encourage you to find some space and quietness and ask God how He'd like to define your year!  There are tons of ideas out there, visit the blog world and see what others are doing.  Through them, God will inspire you to find a word for yourself!!  Here are a few places that I would reccommend starting!
 
 
Well here's to 2013!!!  A year full of amazing possibilities as we allow God to continue writing our story!!  Have a blessed weekend friends!!!
 
Lorraine